In 1951, the Rubins left Cornell for Washington, D.C., where Robert took a position at the Johns Hopkins Applied Physics Laboratory (APL). Within a year, it was clear that his wife desperately missed her research, so Robert encouraged her to pursue a Ph.D. at Georgetown University. While pregnant with their second child, Rubin was soon rubbing shoulders with prominent scientists again. After long days at APL, Robert would drive her to Georgetown for evening classes. He would then park outside and wait, eating his supper in their car.
Roman, meanwhile, graduated from Swarthmore in 1946 and went to the University of Chicago to earn a Ph.D. When she first met the professor who would become her thesis advisor, William Morgan, he told her to go to his house to change the bed since his wife was sick. Stunned, she complied. Roman soon discovered that most of the professors considered educating women a waste of time, since they were all destined to marry and become homemakers.
Morgan rarely met with her and went six months without acknowledging the simplest greeting, Roman wrote. He was willing, on the other hand, to abscond with her research and present it as his own at a prestigious Vatican conference. On the night before her final oral exam, Morgan agreed to meet, but scheduled their session at midnight. “He decided to use it as an occasion for petting,” she wrote. “I moved his hand several times, trying to go on with our conversation.”